17 Dating Habits Of An Extremely Independent Woman

1. She’s never sitting around, waiting for you to call. She’s got too much to do and too much to think about outside of her dating life.

2. Rather, she’s confident enough and comfortable enough with herself to know that if you like her, and you’ve got balls, you will call her. If you don’t, oh well. It wasn’t meant to be and she’ll be happier with someone else.

3. At the same time, if she likes you and she feels like talking to you, she’ll call whenever she damn well pleases. She’s got a busy life and a lot going on, so if she likes you enough, she has no problem with using one of her rare spare moments to talk to you.

4. If planning a date and figuring out a time is more complicated than planning a bank robbery, or if you have to “take a rain check” on multiple occasions, she’s going to get over it real fast. There are plenty of other fish in the sea, and having to waste energy on someone who cancels all the time is not worth it.

5. She’s extremely self-aware. She knows that being independent and self-sufficient doesn’t mean she lacks emotions or feelings. It just means that she’s got a fast-moving life and she’s not afraid of waving away someone who’s just bringing nonsense or negativity into her life.

6. She’s not looking for someone to support her financially. She’s looking for someone who’s going to support her emotionally and mentally. She wants support in life and in whatever it is that she’s trying to do.

7. …And when she thinks she’s found someone like that, she’s just as ready to share her own support and encouragement with them.

8. She’s not into the Hollywood movie stereotype of the cutthroat career woman who becomes soft and loving the minute a man enters into her life and rescues her.

9. Instead, an independent woman just thinks of herself as someone who is ambitious, hard-working, and self-sustaining. She’s not looking for a man to sweep in and save her from this life. She loves this life. She’s just looking for someone who’s going to balance her out, stand as her equal, and allow her to share the life she’s built up for herself.

10. An independent woman knows that she doesn’t have to be crazily successful and wealthy to be considered independent and to feel independent. All she needs is to feel comfortable in her own skin, to know how to provide for herself, and to have passions and interests and projects that exist outside of her dating life.

11. …But she’s not against dating. She doesn’t hate men. She loves dating. She enjoys romance. She wants to find someone and share her life with them. She just knows how to balance it out with other things in order to keep herself feeling fulfilled and happy.

12. An independent woman will not play games with you. Not because she thinks she’s better than you or because she is too good for games. She just finds playing games to be boring and a waste of time. She’s used to being upfront about who she is and what she wants, so playing games is not something that comes naturally to her.

13. She is not concerned with petty drama. Maybe she was, at some point, because enjoying drama is just a natural part of being a teenager and growing up. But at this point in her life, she doesn’t need drama. She has enough going on to keep her entertained, and too many other things that she’s curious about to get caught up in unimportant drama.

14. Being self-sufficient and independent is not equivalent to being high-strung. She’s just as happy to spend a night in her pajamas with you as she is to go out to a nice dinner date. If she likes you, she doesn’t care about what she should be doing and what kind of dates she should be going on. She’ll do whatever she wants, because as long as she is having fun with you, it doesn’t matter.

15. She doesn’t nag you, but she does expect you to put forth your best self.

16. …And she will not apologize for that.

17. She doesn’t believe that she’s always right, but she does believe she has a right to her own opinions. She knows that she makes mistakes and is not correct in everything that she says. But she will not apologize for having something to say. 

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It has been some time for me to wake up early willingly and have an enjoyable morning. Most of the time I wake up early is either fetch my sister for school,rushing to work or fetching my grandma to market on a weekend. Not to mention how long I never have time to read newspapers.

Having a cup of ice coffee and my favorite nasi lemak on weekend like today is blessed.  

And I realize I'm having a life that I wanted since kid. 

Working in office with friendly people, busy all the time.

Having people that I love around me and they love me too. 

What else I can ask for?

People asked me how I feel after being single. My answer would be happy. 

It's not that I don't like being in a relationship. I guess it can describe like this where either being single or in a relationship makes us grow anyway. 

The different is grow up in different perspective.

Human is always greedy. 

When you're in a relationship, you want freedom. When you're not, you want to be in a relationship.

Realizing being single for almost a year, I'm thinking more mature. 

I've put myself in a relationship way too young. Never had a chance to explore the world yet. 

And now, I can make friends easily without worrying the other half would get jealous, hanging out with friends whenever I want. 

And most important, no more arguments.

People asked me hate him or not. 

I don't. Maybe was. But not now. 

Hate is a very strong word. Hating someone is torturing. You're the one who suffer if you have the hate feelings inside you.

We're now stranger if you wanna ask.

We don't contact anymore and I'm not interested with his life.

If he's having a better life, then congrats.

If he's life is still the same, then it's his choice.

Whether being in a relationship or not is a very complicated question. 

The best answer will always be, are you satisfied with your life now. 

I used to think that I've to be in a relationship no matter what.

But then again, why should you do that if he's not the suitable one? 

Making ownself suffer and hate the life is not the purpose we live. 

Having someone who can make your life happier is.

Don't get me wrong, I still believe in true love. 

Where one day, I'll find someone that makes me happy, understand my stupid joke, love me no matter what I did.

But it's not the time yet. 

I've read a quote, it says before you found the right person, the best way is keep yourself in a rational single-ship.

在遇到對的人之前,最好的辦法是保持一段理智的單身.

Don't get yourself in a relationship if you haven't ready. Love yourself more. 

在一切变好之前，我们总要经历一些不开心的日子，这段日子也许很长，也许只是一觉醒来。有时候，选择快乐，更需要勇气。

Cinderella said have courage and be kind. 

Keep yourself happy no matter what. ❤️

Bad luck day

Was having exam in the school hall and got abit nervous when teacher announced only half an hour left cause I still have an essay to go. 

And suddenly whole roof top of the school hall starting to crash from behind and the moment I turned and have a look it's like a Hollywood movie scene happening. 

All the dust coming to the front where we're all sitting and having exam. Teachers and students running toward the entrance. 

We were settled in another classroom without anything. After 20 minutes, we went into the hall to get back our papers and belongings. All of the tables and chairs were covered with dust and sand. Try to imagine a storm in a desert, that's what we saw. Luckily no one were injured. ( Can't post any picture.)

Just now, while on the way to fetch mom back from work and realized tyre punctured. Luckily bro was with me and he changed the tyre. 

I don't know what will happen next. 

I wish everything go smooth start from now. 

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有天發現自己不再年輕，

有天朋友不在經常碰面，

有天越來越不想說話，

有天我忘了微笑，

請記得一定要提醒我。

人生還很長。

Chinese New Year 2015

Happy Chinese New Year!

It has been a year since we celebrate cny last year. Wao time do pass by very fast that I didn't even realize I'm turning 20 soon. Very soon ;(

As usual, we visited granduncle house after we had breakfast. 

And so lucky for us, the car broke down halfway before we turned in the junction to granduncle house which is at Sungai Buloh New Village. 

We stopped the car at the side and realised the engine was too hot cause my dad never checked the water meter for engine. Lol ( He always nag me to check engine oil and water meter before driving, but ownself forgot to do. Hahaha )

Luckily there's still some workers working for the MRT construction. We borrowed water from them to cool down the engine. Glad that they are friendly and willing to help.

     Photo with cousin from the lion city.

And yay will be going Genting tomorrow until chor 5. Even though we will mostly stay in the resort but I can enjoy the good weather. So it's better than stay in house only right? 

Till then. ❤️

Langkawi & Penang Trip'14

The day after the BBW event, I had a family trip to Langkawi Island and also Penang.
It's feels really good to have a trip after the tiring job.
On the midnight of 20th, we started our journey by driving to the jetty so we can manage to take the first trip of ferry to Langkawi Island.

Well everyone looks tired after few hours journey.
I didn't even close my eyes, guess I was too excited.
We reached Langkawi around 8a.m. and waited for the rented car till 11 something.
Since our time to check in hotel is 3 afternoon, we decided to have lunch and visited the aquarium which is nearby our hotel.

While waiting ferry.

Waiting for the person in charge who rented car in Langkawi.

We took lots of photossssss in the aquarium, this is the 3rd time I visit this island and yet I still find everything there is amazing. The people are friendly, things are cheap especially liquor. =P
Except the weather cause it rain most of the time.

My lovely dad & mom.♥

And my family.

Silly brother, annoying sister and pretty me. HAHAHA

And Beauty and the Beastss.

Cousins.

Everyone.

And us.

We took a lot of selfies too.

Selfie level x9867526. 

Beach behind our resort. 

Then we went to the Eagle Square the next day. 

And I'm so lucky to meet one of the BBW crew who work in the same position with me.

Meet Siew Thong aka our leader. =) 

Flowersss.

Flowersss x2. 

Went to the cable car as well but it's actually quite disappointed cause the sky bridge still under maintenance after so long!

It's also Uncle Liong birthday!

So we celebrated his birthday by giving him a surprise. 

Everyone pretended don't know it's his birthday. Haha

While waiting the dinner, Me and cousin Yun walked around 1km to find a bakery shop and bought him a cake. Some more have to ask the restaurant owner to take the cake through the back door. Lol 

Happy 56th birthday! 

And look at my dad. -___- Gay man......

The third day, we packed our belongings and continue our journey to Penang.

Photo taken at the jetty.

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Penang

Meet cousin Ang who is currently staying at Penang and being our tour guide.

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Cousin Ang

Had our dinner and shopping to end our first day at Penang due to raining.

On the Christmas eve, we went to Bukit Bendera and other tourist's must visit places.

The Trick Art Musuem.

Can you spot the lenglui? Hahaha

I'm dead and two kids still happily posing for picture. 

On the last day, we have a fun day with beach activities. 

The first time experienced parachute too. 

It was Funnnnnnnnnnnn! =D

On the way back!

We leave Penang at the afternoon and safely arrived home at the evening.

It was relax and fun when you traveled with people you love and they love you too.

Till next trip. Port Dickson! Yay beach again.♥

♥

2015

HA! It's 2015 now. Time fliessssss.
Lol I know I know. the first post of a new year will always be time flies. LOL!
But it's true what. xD

Anyway, just realize I never update my blog in December.
Please forgive me cause my December life was busy to the max.
I joined as a crew in Big Bad Wolf Book Fair. Working at least 12 hours everyday and wake up at 5a.m. for 19 days. Heck that is a tiring job.
But there is also where I knew new friends and also meet up with more and more crazy people.
Honestly, I never meet any friend like this even I've quite a lot of working experience, I never thought that I could meet someone that is that crazy like my personality which we could understand each other's lame joke hahaha.
I'm glad that I joined the BBW crew tho the job is tiring but I guess I would join it again if I have the opportunity next time. :)
Beside, I never had any outing or even stay contact with the colleague other than working stuff but this is crazy. We even had an outing after the end of the job.
You people had quite a lot of my first time. =D

I also had a trip with my family in Langkawi and Penang.

Will blog about it soon. 

Oh wait, I thought the title is 2015. Lol

Now, lets talk about plan in 2015.

I wish I could get into local uni. Miracles please please please happen.

And also I wish I could save money and stop buying unnecessary stuff. 

Err..... what else

read more books, perhaps take a english course, and have a trip alone. =)

I wish there will be no more tragedy happen because 2014 had been a really bad year.

Hope everyone will be healthy and enjoy the moment when we can still stay with our family and friends. We can never know when is the last day of our life.

Did I just say talk about plans?

nahhh... forget about it. I don't have any big plan in 2015.

I guess I will remain and keep my small plan in my heart until I achieve it one day.

Last but not least. Happy New Year. ♥