當我們被誤解時，會花很多的時間去辯白。 但沒有用。 沒人會聽, 沒人願意聽。 人們按自己的所聞、理解做出判別， 每個人其實都很固執。 他若理解你，一開始就會理解你，從始至終的理解你， 而不是聽你一次辯白而理解。 與其努力而痛苦的試圖扭轉別人的判別， 不如默默承受，給別人多一點時間和空間。 省下辯解的功夫，去實現自身更久遠的人生價值。
渡人如渡己。 渡已，亦是渡人
我怕激情過後是 陌生
我怕曖昧過後是 冷漠
我怕努力過後是 失敗
我怕認真過後是 痛苦
我怕挽留過後是 回憶
我怕信任過後是 利用
我怕做錯過後是 回憶
我怕夢見過後是 不忘
我怕溫柔過後是 冷淡
我怕牽手過後是 分手
我怕最後還是 一無所有
我怕了那麼多卻發現該做的還是做了，
我怕了那麼多卻發現做了以後仍然不曾回頭。
看不開，就背著。
放不下，就記著。
捨不得，就留著。
等有一天...
背不動了，就看開了！
記不清了，就放下了！
留不住了，就捨得了！
所以說有些事情不要太計較，睜一隻眼，閉一隻眼，就會過去的。
珍惜眼前的人，做好眼前的事。一切都是美好的！
陰天，不一定會下雨。
分手，不一定最傷心。
憎恨，不一定會一輩子。
失望，不一定是絕望。
面對，不一定最難過。
孤獨，不一定不快樂。
擁有，不一定要廝守。
沉默，不一定是冷漠。
失去，不一定不再擁有。
失敗，不一定會放棄。
奇跡，不一定不出現。
凡事都要靠自己:
別哭窮，因為沒人會給你錢；
別喊累，因為沒人會幫你做；
別想哭，因為大家並不在乎；
別認輸，因為沒人希望你贏；
別靠人，因為只有自己最可靠；
別乞求，因為別人等著看笑話；
別落魄，因為一堆人在等著落井下石；
別回首，因為看到的是未修復的裂痕；
別離愁，因為只會才下眉頭卻上心頭；
別低頭，因為地上沒有黃金只有石頭；
別強求，因為硬摘的果實，沒有甜頭！
1.遇到愛你的人，學會感恩；
遇到你愛的人，學會付出。
2.遇到你恨的人，學會原諒；
遇到恨你的人，學會道歉。
3.遇到欣賞你的人，學會感激；
遇到你欣賞的人，學會讚美。
4.遇到嫉妒你的人，學會低調；
遇到你嫉妒的人，學會轉化。
5.遇到不懂你的人，學會溝通；
遇到你不懂的人，學會請教。
有個懂你的人，是最大的幸福。這個人，不一定十全十美，但他能讀懂你，能走進你的心靈深處，能看懂你心裡的一切。最懂你的人，總是會一直的在你身邊，默默守護你，不讓你受一點點的委屈。真正愛你的人不會說許多愛你的話，卻會做許多愛你的事。
愛你的人很多, 快樂就好. ♥
Monday, April 28, 2014
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A date that I shall not forget in the rest of my life, so I can remember how unlucky I am to meet this kind of person.
I never, never post or say any bad things when we were together. I also never plan to post anything after we broke up but this is over my limit.
You cheated on me then you want to broke up with me. Then go pretend and told my friend we broke up because of my attitude problem that you can't stand anymore. I know everything but pretend I don't know and kept quiet.
When I kept quiet then you go way beyond my limit.
Tell me how much you love me, regret to brake up and willing to change?
In just a second, posted your picture and her picture in social media?
What the fuck is wrong with you?
Right after I requested to change the number I previously using under your registered name back to my name, you say I'm too over? What the hell?
Posted status in facebook saying we broke up cause my attitude problem to public.
YOU KNOW YOURSELF CLEARLY! YOU CHEATED ON ME, TWICE!
THAT'S WHY WE BROKE UP.
I never say anything doesn't mean I don't know.
The most craziest thing is want back everything you gave as present.
The hell? even birthday present?
Rushing me to give back those thing and said you were busy.
Simple things I requested but you never do, still dare to rush people.
It shows how "gentlement" and how "mature" you are.
Thanks for letting me know there's this kind of jerk once living in my life.
I will never forget what happen today.
And I'm surely won't regret to leave this kind of jerk.
怎麼樣的分手都可以哭，就是劈腿不要哭，你有聽過垃圾被撿走還在捨不得的嗎?
Really thank you for that girl.
Have fun and wish you two all the best.
I never, never post or say any bad things when we were together. I also never plan to post anything after we broke up but this is over my limit.
You cheated on me then you want to broke up with me. Then go pretend and told my friend we broke up because of my attitude problem that you can't stand anymore. I know everything but pretend I don't know and kept quiet.
When I kept quiet then you go way beyond my limit.
Tell me how much you love me, regret to brake up and willing to change?
In just a second, posted your picture and her picture in social media?
What the fuck is wrong with you?
Right after I requested to change the number I previously using under your registered name back to my name, you say I'm too over? What the hell?
Posted status in facebook saying we broke up cause my attitude problem to public.
YOU KNOW YOURSELF CLEARLY! YOU CHEATED ON ME, TWICE!
THAT'S WHY WE BROKE UP.
I never say anything doesn't mean I don't know.
The most craziest thing is want back everything you gave as present.
The hell? even birthday present?
Rushing me to give back those thing and said you were busy.
Simple things I requested but you never do, still dare to rush people.
It shows how "gentlement" and how "mature" you are.
Thanks for letting me know there's this kind of jerk once living in my life.
I will never forget what happen today.
And I'm surely won't regret to leave this kind of jerk.
怎麼樣的分手都可以哭，就是劈腿不要哭，你有聽過垃圾被撿走還在捨不得的嗎?
Really thank you for that girl.
Have fun and wish you two all the best.
Saturday, April 19, 2014
夢醒了
夢醒了,不值得的該放手了.
3年不長也不短.
說不捨是假的, 繼續也只會讓彼此難受,唯有放手讓大家更好.
謝謝一起的這段時間.
沒有人應該為了別人而改變自己原本的性格.
很多事情我知道但我不說.
我瞭解我的性格, 我也知道你要的是什麼.
大家知道分開的原因,祇是不戳破.
真心謝謝這段期間的家人和朋友,
爸爸媽媽也沒多問, 說我以後開心就好.
還有那幾個瘋婆子.
真的謝謝, 在她們面前不必掩飾, 還當我發洩的垃圾桶. 有妳們真好. ❤
單身沒什麼不好, 只要自己開心和不後悔就好. 人生很長,任何事情都是以後回憶裡的微笑. 快樂就好. ;D
Monday, April 7, 2014
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Trust is a very weird things. It use years to build but one second to crash it all.
The moment the feeling of trust crash and you know you're disappointed.
Or perhaps it don't crash at all at first but slowly when everything reveals, the feeling of heart pain and disappointment.
It's pain, so pain that you have to bear with it.
You have to move on.
And you got no time to stop and wait till it recover cause what done is done.
Time flies, people change.
Life goes on.
Thursday, April 3, 2014
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Have been rushing PBS for few weeks. Not to mention the uncountable sleepless night. Argh!
Busy days for these 2 weeks, schedule are packed. Everything suddenly crash together. I wish I have more time to finish my things. Trial exam coming soon then STPM semester 2 before holidays. Have to start doing revision because I don't want to retake. Wish I can do it for this time. Sport house practice start too, have to stay back for practice. Wait and see me become a charcoal. Lol
Wish I can go for a trip during coming holidays. Sometime I really feel like packing my bag and go for a trip alone. Had my own adventure time lol.
Heard Japan Sakura blooming season now, wish I'll have chance to see it in my life.
❤ Joyce
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